I met you because you were Paula’s next door neighbor. You were rich too. You were the baby of your mother’s second set of kids. Spoiled, charming, swarthy, handsome and wiry. I always thought of you as kind of a pre-teen James Dean/Dennis Hopper hybrid with your stingray bike with the extended fork and I’m too cool to even be a rebel attitude. You just had this air about you that other boys didn’t have at the ripe age of 10.
One day, I remember you coming out of the woods behind your house with a mess of dead critters that you skinned for their pelts wearing your coonskin cap. Who taught you to trap I’ll never know. Your paren
ts seemed to have no influence in your life. In fact, the only time I ever saw your parents was when your mom would have cocktails with Paula’s mom – most afternoons – they in their psychedelic 60s caftans sitting in the living room with the deep plush white shag carpeting.
Paula, you and I spent most of the summer between 3rd and 4th grade together. We plotted various mischief and went fishing or swimming in the sand pits or chased down snapping turtles in the murky water. You had a mule to ride. His name was Eli. Paula’s pony was named Sparky. We’d ride all over town, me on the back of one or the other. You were nice to have along because you would deal with the road apples. And, somewhere along the way, you and I found ourselves falling into easy conversation whenever we met.
At the beginning of 4th grade you declared me your girlfriend, kissed me full on the mouth, then put me on the back of your bike and rode me the long way home. Two days later, Jenny Ball caught your eye and I was history.
I could never understand what you saw in me for even those couple of days. But, it made me realize I must not be as weird as I thought if I had caught the eye of the coolest kid in the class.

KMae
Nov 2nd, 2009Ah youth & those innocent memories.
And the sting of rejection. Really painful.
Esp if it was the coolest guy.
In my case, the most beautiful girl.
And I loved her. 6th grade.
Never understood.
Omyword!
Nov 2nd, 2009This post tugged at my heart and memory strings. In Junior High, the in thing was to get pinned by one of the cool guys. Mackey’s Pharmacy in Newtown Square, Pennsylvania was the pin supplier. There was a big bin full of loose pins near the soda fountain. I remember being there with my mom one day and lusting over a big yellow sunflower pin. That week in school, I watched one of the cool guys put that pin on one of the girls’ sweater. To my surprise, I was pinned once, and don’t even remember by whom. I do remember that the symbolic relationship lasted only a week. Did the guy let me keep the pin, or did he come back for it so he could give it to someone else? Can’t remember that either!
Melly
Nov 2nd, 2009Ah…it was Conrad Gunderson for me. Nice post.
Margo Moon
Nov 3rd, 2009You got one teeny point kinda wrong. I’m sure it was actually you who was the coolest kid in the class. Just sayin’.
Jillie
Nov 10th, 2009Damn, Sweetie. You are SO excellent at what you’re doing here. This is absolutely your personal niche.
Love yuns.